Our society holds up penis-in-vagina sex in a way that isn’t… necessarily healthiest for everyone. Before you get down n’ dirty, ask yourself: Am I ready for sex? and what does my Sexual Response Cycle look like?

Like all of our educational comics, the information we share here is just the tip of the iceberg and we fully encourage you to do some more reading up on your own at places that can dive more in-depth on the subjects we introduce.

As ever, Scarleteen remains the definitive source for learning about everything that relates to sex. If you can, please kick them a dollar or two to support their hard work!

Intercourse(s) Resources


First Intercourse 101
My Corona: The Hymen & the Myths That Surround It
Yield for Pleasure
Hours of Intercourse? Nope. (And also: Ow.)
Why would intercourse feel good for women?
Ready or Not? The Scarleteen Sex Readiness Checklist
Why do girls bleed after or before intercourse is over?
One Bloody Mess: Myths & Realities of Bleeding with First Intercourse
Is THAT All There Is?
Is intercourse a violence or a violation?

Remember, sex should be pleasurable for both you and your partner. If vaginal intercourse just ain’t your thing? That is noooo problem, cos YOU HAVE SO MANY OTHER AWESOME SEXY ACTIVITIES TO PARTAKE IN! Sexting, dry humping, grinding, mutual masturbation, cock sucking, pussy licking, finger fucking, muffing, butt fucking, and on and on and on! Lucky you, you have so many fun things to explore by yourself and consensually with a partner. Good luck!